Sometimes we have to be tough with ourselves and the people we love. I have people send me questions on a daily basis and most people are seeking out advice for a better life. One of the most common threads that I find, are that these people seem to already know the answer. I know that may sound kind of weird at first, but it’s true.
I believe we have within us everything we need to really become the BEST versions of ourselves. I do not want this to get twisted, so let me be clear about seeking council. You should always seek guidance and mentorship when making the “big” decisions, even if you know what is right in your heart. It helps to clarify your thoughts and give them even more support. This way you may make decisions with the utmost certainty.
Now, I really am not quite sure the EXACT reason these people ask me questions they know the answers to, but it just may be to verify their thoughts. Just like anything else, this too can get a little out of control. I hear some of there responses after I give them feedback that validate they know the answers already. Some folks continually need validation for their thoughts, which made me draw a very interesting conclusion.
They need to GET OUT of their own way. These people are LITERALLY complicating life into ways that are obnoxiously unnecessary. This can be one of our BIGGEST problems to advancing. All those crazy convoluted thoughts interfering the process will create havoc if not controlled.
Life tosses us enough obstacles, we should try and be less disruptive to reality. I am not trying to be insensitive here, I am bring you the RAW truth. Sometimes the only thing holding YOU back is YOU! We drag our feet as if we are scared to achieve our goals. We have an amplitude of excuses stored up for every solution and a weak belief that things will end up on a positive note.
I am not 100% why we do this, but know it cannot go on if we wish to become the BEST versions of ourselves. WE need to seriously get out of our own way and let our story unfold more naturally. If you are facing this issue, I suggest you let it go and STOP with the excuses. The excuses are ONLY hurting YOU!
I hope this helps guide you in a more precise direction towards your goals. Take the time to analyze your life and check to see of YOU are in YOUR own way. And if you are…GET OUT!!!
To Your Massive Success,
Ps. Stay tuned for the debut of The Motivation Files! Another teaser is to be released soon on my social media accounts (most likely Facebook) so make sure you friend request me and say hello!